I know what you mean! Many women feel that way. But every problem has its solution! I think you should go ahead and get the shoes you like. There are ways to make them more comfortable – I'm sure you've seen all kinds of pads and insoles at your local drugstore. I have a friend who swears by the ProFoot Triad and puts them in almost every pair she has. Many insoles can be worn in high-heeled shoes, as long as they don't show through the sides. That way the shoes will feel more comfortable, and you can even adjust the fit. As for the dry skin, a pumice stone and lotion are often not enough. If you want to wear a more open style of shoe, I recommend the Ped Egg – the same one you see on TV. It removes dry skin and even calluses, but it's gentle enough that healthy skin is not damaged. And then use the pumice stone and the very good lotion. It sounds like a lot, but I think you'll find that you only need to use the Ped Egg once every few days. And if you love shoes, like I do, then it's worth it! Now go out there and wear those shoes with confidence!!!